How to overcome decor differences among couples
In relationships, merging lives often involves merging styles, and nowhere is this more evident than in the realm of home decor. It is common to come across a situation where partners have differences in opinions. While finding common ground can sometimes feel like a challenge, it is an opportunity to infuse your shared space with the unique essence of both individuals. Here's how.
Get priorities set
When relocating together, remodeling, or redecorating, emotions can run wild and decision-making, finances, and differing tastes can cause a great deal of stress. Talking about how you want to use the spaces and what matters to each of you from the initial stage itself is one method to make sure that everyone is satisfied. Establish mutual must-haves, likes, and points of agreement before proceeding.
Use a scale of importance
When in doubt, use the "1-10 scale of importance" as a tiebreaker. This involves ranking an item or decision in terms of importance when there is a clash between you both. However, in order for the process to be successful, you both need to be able to trust each other. Thus, neither of you can be dishonest or even exaggerate your responses.
Get an opinion from outside
A third party's perspective is a terrific approach to resolving conflicts. This could be an interior designer, friends, family, or even a heated Reddit debate. A third party can bring a fresh perspective to your problem. Look through the many internal articles and blogs that are available both online and in print. Going through the pages together may be a highly beneficial exercise.
Divide spaces
Often, how you both see a space or the mood associated with the room is different. Deciding on a room where each person has the autonomy to choose the decor is one of the finest methods to ensure that everyone feels comfortable in their new home. This is the best way to incorporate both the partner's ideas under one roof.
Mix both your styles
Shop together, pointing out items you both adore, or spend time together perusing magazines or Pinterest to gain a sense of each other's style. If you both find yourself on the other extreme, you need to use your imagination. Opposing styles, layered eclectic textures, varying color schemes, and a combination of distinctive accessories and artwork may sometimes result in the most visually appealing settings.
