Here's how to rebuild friendships, one step at a time
Life often takes us on unexpected journeys, sometimes keeping us away from the people we once held dear. Losing touch with friends is a common part of life's ebb and flow. While it may happen over time, remember that there is always a way to rekindle these cherished friendships. Relationship coach Jeevika Sharma shares tips to help re-establish these lost connections.
Start by regular conversation
When connecting with your long-lost friend, start by maintaining a regular conversation, advises Sharma. "It could be either exchanging some messages or talking with each other over a call every few days," she says. According to her, this strategy would help you return your friendship to good terms and both of you would soon start feeling connected as friends again.
Share life updates
Slowly start sharing a few life updates with them and ask them about their life too. "However, remember not to start interfering in each other's life," warns Sharma. "Only ask them to know about their current status and whereabouts." "This would help both stay updated about one another's life which is the initial stage of building a strong bond," says Sharma.
Start meeting them
Sharma suggests meeting each other whenever possible if you are living in the same city. Meet every year if you both stay in different states. "Meeting in person would make the bond between them stronger. Meeting people, sharing more life updates, going shopping and having meals together would help in establishing the bond between the two," she says.
Be a guiding hand
"Friendship grows stronger when two people guide each other and help to choose a better path in life. It could be either personal or professional life or both," says the relationship coach. Similarly, if you think your friend is doing something wrong or if it would affect them, then stop them from doing so by explaining to them the situation.
Invite them home
"Furthermore, people re-establish the bond with one another by introducing each other to their families and inviting them often to get-togethers or family functions wherever possible," says Sharma. According to her, this will make both parties feel valued and more connected. Sharms makes it clear that while rekindling friendships, friends should trust each other and should not betray or be jealous of one another.
