Tell-tale signs you have great in-laws
Having wonderful in-laws is a blessing. A harmonious relationship with your partner's family can make life significantly smoother and more enjoyable. In-laws often play a significant role in your life, so it's a wonderful feeling when you genuinely like and get along with them. But how do you know if you've hit the in-law jackpot? Relationship coach and astrologer Jeevika Sharma shares some points.
If they do not interfere in personal matters
You know your in-laws are great if they do not interfere in your matters either professionally or related to your partner. Good in-laws understand and respect the boundaries between your family unit and theirs. "Usually, in-laws interfere a lot which often ruins one's mental health and the relationship with your spouse. Having in-laws that do not interfere is a blessing," says Sharma.
If they help in making decisions
"If your in-laws help you make wise decisions that prevent you from any future regrets, it is a sign that you are blessed with amazing in-laws," says Sharma. They have learned from their past and do not want you to suffer because of any wrong decisions/actions. Additionally, they will support you in your decisions and goals related to your personal and professional life.
If they apologize to you
According to Sharma, if your in-laws apologize to you for any purely unintentional misbehavior then you have great in-laws. "In many cases, in-laws tend to blame you for their actions and refuse to admit any wrongdoing that may impact your life," she says. If they can communicate effectively and honestly, it's a sign of a strong foundation for a positive relationship.
If they are not greedy
There are many instances in our country where in-laws become greedy for money and demand dowries or unnecessary monetary support. You should count yourself lucky if your in-laws are not driven by greed, not only in financial matters but in general as well. Exceptional in-laws make extra efforts to ensure you feel welcomed and an integral part of their family.
If they do not put your spouse's blame on you
If your in-laws do not put your spouse's blame on you then you have good in-laws. "In most cases, people blame their son-in-law or daughter-in-law for no reason or push the blame on them for any wrongdoing or shortcomings of their child," says Sharma. Ideal in-laws will be non-judgemental. They understand that no one is perfect, and they don't hold grudges.
