Life skills you should master before you turn 30
As adults, we don't have a guidebook for life. Turning 30 doesn't come with a manual that teaches us all the rules and skills we need. While our 20s are about exploring and trying new things, our 30s are a time to make important life decisions. Let's discover the essential life skills you must master before you reach the milestone of 30.
Learn to say 'No'
Saying no respectfully can be tough because we don't want to disappoint others. However, when we're already overwhelmed and someone asks for our time or help, saying yes may not be the best option. We shouldn't feel guilty about protecting our time, health, and well-being. Remember, we can't get back what we give away. It's okay to prioritize ourselves and politely decline when needed.
Learn to take feedback
Learning to accept feedback can be challenging. It is unpleasant to hear about our mistakes or how we could have done better. However, a skill we can develop is setting aside our initial emotions and concentrating on the presented information. Some of it will be helpful, and some won't. Instead of letting our ego decide, we should let our brain figure it out.
Respect those who are different from you
Each person has a unique journey through life. It is important to respect that and also value ourselves. To do that, we should try to understand how others see things. Considering how our words and actions may be perceived can prevent misunderstandings and help us avoid coming across as insensitive or uncaring. Being empathetic and open-minded helps us build connections instead of barriers.
Strictly follow a budget
During your 20s, it's easy to live freely, but it's important not to squander this time or your money. It is time to focus on the fundamental aspect of having more money coming in than going out, which essentially means sticking to a budget. By firmly following a budget, you can skillfully handle your personal finances and create savings for unforeseen circumstances.
Ask for what you want
The saying, "If you don't ask, you don't receive" holds true. Many people miss out on pitching ideas, asking for raises or promotions, pursuing bigger sales deals, or taking on more responsibilities. As a result, they often find less challenge, meaning, and reward in their work. At the market, you could ask for a discount, or ask for a favor from your colleagues.
