Tips and tricks to master the art of small talk
Most people detest small talk, but when done well, it can be a great way to meet new people and create a welcoming environment. Lighthearted, meaningful interactions can open doors and leave a lasting impact, whether you're networking at a professional event or making new acquaintances at a social gathering. Consider these tips to strike up a conversation the next time you meet someone.
Pretend you are talking to an old friend
One way to begin small talk is by starting the chat as though you were talking to an old friend. It just requires a shift of perspective. Make yourself comfortable and listen to what the other person is saying, rather than trying to prepare your next dialogue. The dialogue will flow easily and they will feel valued.
Pretend to be interested
When it comes to small talk, many feel a great deal of pressure to be engaging and interesting. Nonetheless, talking only about yourself is the surest way to end a discussion. So, to start a discussion with someone, show interest in them, ask pertinent questions, and then just shut up and listen. For instance, inquire about their interests, their favorite books or recent adventures.
Give compliments
Everyone appreciates kind remarks. To ensure comfort, genuinely compliment the person on something and smoothly transition the conversation into a question. A compliment is more than just kind words; it expresses genuine interest and gratitude toward something about the person. This enhances the relationship, making it more enjoyable and engaging, and opens the door to other conversation topics, such as favorite books or accessories.
Read up
Be updated with current affairs, pop culture or relevant topics within your community or area. Just take it up a notch and have an informed perspective to prepare yourself for a small conversation. Having said that, don't merely think anything provocative for the sake of thinking. Rather, stay up to date on your priorities, and your passion. You will find the conversations flowing.
Keep it light and positive
Small talk is not the time for heavy or controversial topics. Keep the conversation light, positive, and enjoyable. Share amusing anecdotes, discuss shared interests, and focus on creating a pleasant interaction. Meanwhile, avoid discussing controversial and deep topics. Also, refrain from advising during small talk especially when you don't know much about the other person.
