Signs of a healthy friendship: How to recognize true friends
When we make new friends or begin a romantic relationship, we tend to look for "red flags" that could indicate potential problems or danger. What we don't think about as much are the "green flags" - the positive signs that someone is a wonderful friend and brings a positive influence in our lives. Here are some green flags you must notice in a friend.
They respect your boundaries
In healthy friendships, it's important to have boundaries. A good friend encourages and respects your boundaries, understanding your need to set certain limits in the relationship. On the other hand, a codependent friend may disregard your boundaries and make you feel bad for having them. A true friend values and honors your boundaries, creating a safe and supportive environment for the friendship to grow.
You can be yourself around them
Another major green flag is when you feel completely at ease to express your true, quirky, and silly self around your friend. There's no need to put on a facade or pretend to be someone you are not just to impress them. A real friend will offer advice without being too critical of your choices, except if you are making really bad decisions.
They actually listen to you
You know you've got a real friend when they actually listen to you. It's not just nodding and pretending; they remember the stuff you tell them. For example, you mentioned to your friend that you were struggling to find a job. A few weeks later, they reached out to you with a job opening. Real friends show genuine interest in your life.
They don't shy away from 'real' conversations
One of the best things about having a true friend is the kind of conversations you share with them. It's a great sign when you can talk about deep or challenging topics without any awkwardness or judgment. A real friend will be there to discuss things like personal growth, spiritual journey, and life goals with genuine interest and respect.
They uplift you
Real friends are like rays of sunshine in your life. Unlike toxic friends, genuine friends lift up your spirits and inspire you. When you spend time with them, you can't help but leave with a big smile on your face, feeling genuinely happy and excited to see them again. They bring out the best in you, support your growth, and celebrate your successes.
