Signs that a marriage will last, insights from an expert
In the world of human relationships, each person brings a unique blend of virtues and vices. Vices, after all, are an innate part of being human - nobody's perfect. We often focus on finding the red flags in relationships, but what about the green flags? It's just as important to understand the positive signs that scream 'marry me' in all good sense.
Loyalty
"Loyalty is easily the biggest green flag in a healthy marriage," says relationship coach Jeevika Sharma. Without a doubt, it plays a central role in upholding a relationship's integrity and longevity. Sharma further shares, "A relationship cannot survive if both the partners are not faithful to each other." A lack of loyalty can introduce doubt, suspicion, and instability into the relationship.
Honesty
Honesty, in a relationship, fosters trust, allowing partners to feel secure and supported. The relationship coach underscores, "Honesty is the second pillar on which stands a healthy and happy marriage." Without honesty, the foundation of the relationship becomes shaky. "If both partners are not honest with each other, there will never be any trust between them causing frequent fights," Sharma notes.
Respect
"Respect forms the third pillar of a healthy marriage." Partners need to genuinely respect each other, no matter where they are - in private or public. If you treat your partner poorly before others, it can make them lose respect for you. "Even in the case of a mistake, don't reprimand your partner before everyone. Wait till you both are in private," Sharma says.
Validation
According to the coach, nurturing a healthy relationship involves making your partner feel wanted and important. "You could do it either through actions or your words," says the coach. In a marriage, both partners need to place each other as a top priority, "above anyone else." This helps foster a strong connection and reinforces the bond between the partners.
No judgements
The advice is clear: "Don't be judgmental of your partner all the time and criticize them." "Couples who do not judge each other based on looks and habits is a green flag and are destined for a healthy and happy marriage," she states. Being able to avoid shallow judgments fosters a stronger emotional bond and enhances the overall quality of the relationship.
Shares victories
As per the coach, in a marriage, both partners should cheer for each other's successes and celebrate their achievements together. "There should not be any feeling of inferiority in the minds of either in a relationship," she emphasizes. This dynamic cultivates a positive atmosphere where both individuals can flourish independently, while still supporting and uplifting each other without any negative comparisons.
Defends each other
"Both partners should take each other's stand before their family, friends or any people in the world," Sharma concludes. Explaining the importance of taking a stand for each other, Sharma explains, "It reassures your partner that you will always be with them under all circumstances." It's a way to build trust and show that you're always there for your partner.
