Father's Day: How to make your bond with dad special
Fathers often project a rough and tough image, seemingly self-sufficient. However, beneath that tough surface, most of them long for love and affection from their families. And who can fulfill their hearts better than their children? Simply dedicating time to them to understand them can brighten their day. As Father's Day approaches, we offer some valuable suggestions to strengthen the bond with your father.
Find time for your dad
Time is the most basic yet precious thing you can offer your father. Allow yourself to let go of previous expectations of how he should have been. Let go of all the inhibitions and support him in his life and endeavors ahead. Show him that he is a valuable part of your life. Acknowledging his presence and support is the key here.
Ask about his life
One of the best ways to win your father's heart is by asking him to share stories from the past. He would cherish recounting his experiences, companions, dreams, and learnings. Just pay attention and enjoy the storytelling process. Deepen the connection by asking for further details when something captivates you. Fathers would surely appreciate their children taking an interest in their life.
Indulge in fun activities together
Sharing each other's hobbies and interests is a great way to strengthen the father-child bond. Including your dad in your passion or enjoying his interests make way for a healthy relationship. These activities could be anything, ranging from playing sports/video games to cooking together to even helping at work. Your dad will be a quick learner. Do it frequently to strengthen your bond.
Plan surprises
Celebrate your father by buying him things he likes. Plan a day out once in a while with your father. Go for a movie together, eat from his favorite restaurant or street vendor, buy things for him, or play something together. You could also surprise him by calling his closest friends over at home or by organizing a reunion elsewhere.
Show affection, vividly
Everyone has a unique way of expressing love. Some fathers can't help but constantly kiss their children, while others don't physically display their affection. But that does not mean you cannot show affection in return. A simple hug activates nerve endings that support security and well-being. Hugging, a gentle stroke on the shoulder, or sitting close, can convey a sense of understanding and reassurance.
