From 'betrothal package' to 'sugar bread'—exploring Belgian wedding customs
What's the story
Belgian weddings are a perfect harmony of contemporary style and cherished traditions.
From the unconventional way couples summon their guests to the emotional customs during the ceremony, these traditions infuse Belgian weddings with a special touch of romance and authenticity.
This article delves into five unique Belgian wedding traditions, providing a peek into the rich tapestry of the nation's cultural heartbeat.
Invitation
The betrothal package
In Belgium, couples don't just send a card to invite you to their wedding, they send a whole betrothal box!
This box, typically filled with Belgian chocolates, handwritten notes, and occasionally a miniature bottle of local beer or wine, doubles as an invitation and a thank-you gift.
It gives a sneak peek into the wedding's theme.
Favors
Sweet mementos
In Belgium, wedding favors are typically sweet treats or chocolates, a nod to the country's world-famous chocolate-making heritage.
We're not talking about regular store-bought chocolates here.
Couples usually choose artisanal chocolates that can be custom-made according to their preferences.
These delicious keepsakes are presented as thank-you gifts to guests, representing the sweetness and happiness shared on the special day.
Procession
The wedding procession
At Belgian weddings, the traditional procession from the bride's house to the church or town hall is a highlight.
Preceded by musicians, family members follow in order of closeness (parents, siblings, uncles, aunts, cousins).
This public display, believed to bring good fortune, transforms the couple's walk to the future into a shared celebration with the community.
Breakfast
Bridal sugar bread
On the morning of her wedding day, a Belgian bride is presented with bridal sugar bread by her godmother.
This beautifully decorated sweet bread, intended for sharing at breakfast, symbolizes the sweetness and abundance of new life.
It's a lovely tradition of sharing happiness and blessings with close family before starting married life.
Luck
The chimney sweep charm
In some parts of Belgium, spotting a chimney sweep on your wedding day is deemed extremely fortunate.
So much so that many couples have taken to hiring one to attend their nuptials.
Why? Well, the chimney sweep is believed to "sweep away" evil spirits and misfortune, blessing the newlyweds and their venue with good luck and joy.