Expert reveals the secrets to a happy marriage
A happy and enduring marriage stands as a testament to the art of love, commitment, and mutual growth. While there's no one-size-fits-all formula for marital bliss, certain time-tested secrets can pave the way for a fulfilling and harmonious partnership. NewsBytes got in touch with relationship coach Jeevika Sharma to understand the secret traits of a long-lasting and happy marriage.
Trust
Partners should be open to talking or sharing information in a safe space where one shouldn't feel judged. "There should be trust between both partners and it should not waiver at any time. A marriage, either love or arranged, without trust would never be successful. Both the partners must maintain trust by being loyal to each other," says Sharma.
Finances
According to Sharma, both partners need to manage their finances well. "Both should know the income and savings of the other and should plan all the investments together. They should also consult each other before any big expenditure," she says. Discussing your financial goals is crucial, and aligning your values and long-term goals creates a sense of purpose and unity.
Equal responsibility
Respect forms the bedrock of a happy marriage. Both partners should take care of household chores ensuring not to burden one partner with more tasks. "Even after having house help, there are a few things that need to be done by the residents of the house. All such things should be equally divided between both partners," explains Sharma.
Time management
The most important thing one needs to manage is time. In the hustle and bustle of daily life, carve out dedicated time for each other. Remember to spend some quality time with your loved one. "No matter how much the partners know each other they need to spend time with each other to make the marriage work," says the relationship coach.
Family
Managing both the relationship and the family, which encompasses in-laws and their responsibilities, is crucial. According to Sharma, "Even if the in-laws live separately, caring for them is important. Whether you're new to them due to an arranged marriage or have known each other for long, the responsibilities persist." Additionally, spending quality time together is the greatest gift a couple can share, suggests Sharma.
Strong foundation
Sharma explains, "A strong foundation is a sign of a healthy marriage. Disagreements are inevitable in relationships, but what truly matters is having that strong foundation and standing by each other's side." Facing challenges together, be it financial struggles, health issues, or other adversities, strengthens the bond and reinforces the partners' commitment to each other.
