Yearender: Decoding the hottest dating trends of 2023
As each year unfolds, so does the way people approach dating, seeking companionship, and building relationships. From digital platforms to real-life encounters, the dating trends of the year offer insights into the collective heartbeat of modern relationships. As we prepare to say goodbye to 2023, here is a look at some top trends that emerged in the dating scene.
NATO dating
The approach, known as NATO (not attached to an outcome), focuses on creating lifelong memories and experiences rather than being fixated on a certain objective. This tendency is closely related to the increase in situationships, in which individuals prioritize getting to know one another, being present in the moment, and leaving things flexible. NATO dating provides a feeling of liberty and exploration.
Guard railing
Guard railing has grown more common as people are more aware of how dating affects their emotional health. Here, the individuals establish and convey personal boundaries early in a partnership to guarantee expectations, emotional engagement, and commitment. This approach encourages candid and open communication to establish a solid foundation and prevent emotional upheaval or loss.
Stack dating
Stack dating is the practice of setting up several dates at various times on the same day; and for every scheduled date, they establish a specific length. Stack dating can take place anywhere, although it usually happens at the same spot. Compared to the usual date approach, this strategy is easier to fit into your busy schedule as it is more flexible.
Open casting
Open casting refers to dating someone who is not your typical "type." Here, people broaden their viewpoints by venturing outside of their comfort zones. It inspires one to be receptive, both mentally and emotionally, to individuals who might not meet all of their criteria/expectations. It can also entail dating someone different from what people would normally expect from a person given their dating history.
Groundhogging
The concept of "groundhogging" refers to dating or pursuing the same kind of person repeatedly with the expectation of different outcomes. People repeatedly choose the "ideal type" and date them only to end up unhappy or hurt. However, they continue dating the same kind of people by searching for similar profiles, rather than ending this cycle.