Discover the unique wedding traditions of Malta
What's the story
The Mediterranean island nation of Malta holds a deep well of history and culture, and this is beautifully reflected in their traditional weddings.
These customs add a layer of magic to the celebrations and root the ceremonies in the heart of Maltese heritage.
Every pre-wedding ritual and post-wedding celebration holds weight and weaves its own tale, making the whole affair more than just a wedding - it becomes a story.
Pre-wedding
The serenade or 'il-gilwa'
A night before the wedding, the groom is supposed to sing love songs to his bride-to-be beneath her window
This romantic tradition, called Il-Gilwa, sees the groom (with a guitarist and occasionally friends and family in tow) crooning traditional love songs to declare his love.
This sweet serenade is a symbol of the groom's devotion and love for his soon-to-be wife.
Dowry
The dowry system
The dowry system, a fading tradition in Maltese weddings, saw families meticulously crafting linens, clothing, and occasionally offering property or money to the new couple.
This custom served as a heartfelt gesture, setting the foundation for the couple's shared journey.
While modern times have seen a shift away from this practice, some families cherish the tradition, honoring their lineage by keeping the dowry alive.
Cuisine
Traditional Maltese wedding food
Food is the heart and soul of Maltese weddings.
Receptions feature a spread of traditional dishes like fenkata, pastizzi (cheesy or pea-stuffed pastries), and timpana (baked pasta).
Desserts are also a highlight, with kannoli (ricotta-filled pastry tubes) and qubbajt (nougat) being crowd favorites.
These dishes not only satisfy guests but also celebrate Malta's rich culinary heritage.
Procession
The Wedding March
In many Maltese villages, traditional weddings involve a festive march (rather, a dance procession) from the bride's house to the church, led by musicians playing traditional Maltese music.
This procession, known as the "Marca," is more than just a walk to the church; it's a lively celebration of love and community.
It signifies not just the union of two individuals, but also the joining of two families and communities.
Celebration
Money dance
The money dance is a fun tradition at most Maltese weddings, where guests get to pin money onto the bride's dress as they take turns dancing with her.
This custom is both practical and sentimental: it helps support the couple's financial future while guaranteeing each guest a special moment with the bride on her big day.