#HealthBytes: Tips for healthy and safe sex for same-sex couples
A satisfying, healthy and safe sex life is vital to a couple's overall mental, physical and emotional well-being. There are many lifestyle and psychological factors that go into determining the quality of sex you have. Here are some handy tips for same-sex couples, to practise safe and healthy sex.
Use protection to stay safe from STIs
Hands down the most important aspect for any couple out there is to understand how important practising safe sex is for their mental and physical well-being. Even if there's no risk of pregnancy for the same-sex couple, condoms are usually recommended as they reduce the risk of catching STIs. So buy some in advance and keep them handy when the time comes.
Because it's not about just getting done!
Sex should never be about getting done with things, under the sheets. Above all things, sex has to be enjoyable. And for attaining sexual pleasure, foreplay is crucial. Go slow, and indulge in kissing, touching, and whatever else that gets you turned on, in order to set the right mood for the climax.
Communication is vital
In any romantic relationship, healthy and open communication is vital, and same goes for sex. A couple must learn to openly communicate before, during, and after sex, and talk about what does and doesn't feel good. Bring up your fears and fetishes with your partner. It'll enhance both the pleasure and your relationship. So, if you want to try new things, tell them.
Maintain hygiene before and during sex
It is of utmost importance to take care of hygiene before and during sex. It is advisable to always have sex in clean and tidy surroundings, and make sure the toys, if any, are clean. Plus, women are advised to take a trip to the washroom after sex, to avoid risk of UTI. Additionally, a couple must use fresh underclothing, and keep wipes handy.
Tips for same-sex couples, to practise safe oral sex
To ensure safe oral sex, follow these simple tips: While practising oral sex on penis, always use a non-lubricated latex or polyurethane-based condom. Further, while having oral sex involving the vagina or the anus, use a dental dam. In case a dental dam isn't available, cut open a condom to create a square and apply to mouth to create barrier while having oral sex.
Above all, just have fun!
In the end, remember that sex is no competition, with anyone. As long as you and your partner are happy with what you're doing in bed, that's all what matters. So, be playful and try new things- above all, just have fun!
