Selena feels like an 'outsider' in Taylor's friendship circle: Report
Selena Gomez reportedly feels like an "outsider" in her longtime friend Taylor Swift's celebrity-filled circle, according to a report by Daily Mail. Insiders have revealed that the lack of public appearances between the two stars is due to Gomez's reluctance to socialize with Swift's other friends. These include high-profile celebrities such as Blake Lively, Lana Del Rey, Sophie Turner, Zoe Kravitz, Ice Spice, and Brittany Mahomes.
Gomez's absence from Swift's social gatherings noticed
Swift, who is currently busy with her Eras world tour, has been seen with her celebrity friends on multiple occasions. However, Gomez has been conspicuously absent from these gatherings. The last time the two stars were photographed together was in January, during the Golden Globes. An insider told DailyMail that "Selena feels like she has matured out of Taylor's circle of friends."
Gomez's reaction to missing out on group hangouts
In February, Gomez seemingly expressed her disappointment at missing a group hangout. This was evident when she commented on an Instagram photo of Swift's box at the Super Bowl, posted by a fan page. The picture featured Swift with Lively, Keleigh Sperry, Del Rey, Ice Spice among others. In response to this post, Gomez left a sad tearful emoji along with a black heart emoji.
Gomez's absence from Swift's Rhode Island party raised eyebrows
Fans were surprised when Gomez did not attend Swift's Rhode Island party in August. The insider further explained, "In a lot of ways, she feels like an outsider now. She is not a cheerleader and never wanted to be." It has been reported that there is some tension between Lively and Gomez, who choose to spend time with their pop star BFF separately.
Gomez and Swift's focus on personal relationships
Another reason for the apparent distance between Gomez and Swift is their focus on their respective romantic relationships. Gomez has been dating musician Benny Blanco since Summer 2023, while Swift began her relationship with Kansas City Chiefs player Travis Kelce around the same time. The insider noted, "They are each focused on their careers and their relationships. Ultimately, they are both happy for each other that they are both in love at the same time."
Double dates not possible for the two couples
The insider also mentioned that double dates are not an option for Gomez and Swift as their partners would not have much in common. They said, "They know that double dates are out of the questions because their men would literally have nothing at all to talk about." Moreover, Blanco confirmed during a SiriusXM interview that they had not made an effort to meet up despite him running into Swift at a restaurant just days before the interview.
Busy schedules and career commitments also factor in
Another source suggested that their busy schedules and career commitments are also a reason for their infrequent hangouts. "Life, in a good way, is the reason Taylor and Selena don't hang out often anymore," they said. "Taylor is on the biggest tour ever and trying to juggle that with seeing Travis. Selena is busy with Only Murders in the Building and her relationship with Benny."
However, despite alleged differences, friendship remains the same
Insiders also informed Daily Mail that the friendship still remains intact. "'It is one of those friendships where, if they were in the same room, no matter how much time has passed, they would pick up right off where they left off." "They will likely see each other in the future at awards shows or if they happen to be in the same city and maybe catch a dinner."
