How Ben's 'erratic behavior' led to split with Jennifer Lopez
What's the story
Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce from Ben Affleck, citing "irreconcilable differences" as the primary reason.
However, an insider, speaking to PEOPLE, suggests that Affleck's unpredictable behavior was a significant factor in their separation.
Despite their mutual affection, it was the Justice League actor's sudden mood swings that created a rift between them.
"The truth is there was a great deal of love but also unfortunately what became clear were Ben's erratic mood swings."
Behavior shift
Affleck's mood swings: From 'happy, warm' to 'darkest behavior'
The source further described Affleck's mood swings as "giant" and "erratic," noting a stark contrast in his demeanor.
He would oscillate between "being incredibly happy and warm — the best light that emanated from him — to exhibiting the deepest, darkest behavior."
"I think he was signalling a message to the press. But yet participating."
Relationship struggle
Couple's attempts to salvage relationship thwarted by Affleck's mood swings
The couple, who had been married since July 2022, had been trying to salvage their relationship. However, Affleck's mood swings were making it difficult.
"They were trying to work through it, but when the mood swings and the big highs and big lows informed a toxicity that was pervasive, no one can help you — you have to help yourself."
Despite their love for each other and public support, they couldn't overcome these challenges.
Public silence
Lopez and Affleck yet to publicly address their divorce
The couple has not yet publicly addressed their divorce.
They had previously tied the knot twice, first in Las Vegas in July 2022 and then at Affleck's Georgia estate on August 20, 2022.
The court documents revealed that there was no prenuptial agreement in place. Lopez has reportedly requested to waive any spousal support for both parties.
The couple has no kids together.