'Will & Harper' review: Feel-good, progressive documentary about trans rights
Will & Harper, which arrived on Netflix on Friday, is a sentimental, gentle, unfiltered peep into the life of Harper Steele (formerly Andrew Steele), a Hollywood writer. It follows Steele and his friend of almost three decades, actor Will Ferrell, who go on a road trip for over a fortnight after Steele's transition. Charming, funny, and honest, it's about embracing your true self.
Background of the documentary
As Ferrell narrates at the beginning, the two friends met while working on Saturday Night Live, and quickly progressed from colleagues to close friends. They fell out of touch briefly during the pandemic, but once Steele transitioned, she wrote to Ferrell, prompting the two to rekindle their friendship. Over the trip, the two learn both about each other, and about themselves.
You don't have to come with any preparations!
The most distinguished, striking aspect is its watchability. You may not know the two subjects or may not be too aware of the LGBTQ+ community, but that's not a hindrance when it comes to this nearly two-hour-long documentary. Through photos and conversations, we are filled in on all the necessary details, so it feels like we knew Steele both before and after her transition.
Steele's ache and hurt is palpable
When Steele begins explaining what she went through all her life—a woman trapped in a man's body—you immediately warm up to her. She thought she was a "weirdo" and felt like she "played a character named Andrew." In her 60s, she finally takes the plunge and comes out, showcasing ferocious strength that makes one exclaim that she's the true embodiment of her last name!
Ferrell is willing to be taught something new
Will & Harper repeatedly underlines that every day is a learning process, and every day we let go of preconceived notions and unlearn and re-learn something. This is evident through Ferrell, who naturally has a plethora of questions, but asks them kindly, ensuring he doesn't misgender or offend Steele. In this, he represents the audience—his questions mirror our doubts, too.
Cathartic to see friendship between two senior people
Beyond the emphasis on Steele's gender, WH can also be viewed as a portrait of love, friendship, and an unwavering bond between two senior citizens. Old age doesn't have to rob one of life's best pleasures, and it's heartfelt to see the duo doing everything they did when they were younger. It celebrates the longevity of friendships and the courage required to be free-spirited.
How does Steele's family react?
The documentary zooms in on not just Steele's experiences, but also captures the experiences and reactions of her family. While her kids supported her bold step and ensured their relationship didn't alter at all, one of them admitted to "losing a masculine figure." Thus, such a step is never easy for either side and lack of awareness and rampant transphobia aggravates the matters.
Makes for a breezy watch; 3/5 stars
I would have liked to see more of their friends and families, and interviews with people who knew Steele pre-transition. However, that does not take away from the novelty and integrity of the project; it has enough charm up its sleeve for you to keep watching. Mature, brave, and timely, it's a beautiful portrayal of friendship and a champion of the trans community.
